Thursday, November 25, 2010

Haredi women go under the knife

Haredi women go under the knife


Kind of interesting as how "in your face" type of reporting has been upgraded to "chutzpah". The key words being "slowly" and "says Doctor".

"Slowly"-the article suggest/admits is 2% !!!!
"Says Doctor"- so, how much money was paid for this article/advertisement ????

Does the average person, read and understand what's going on here ?

The other big question, how true is it when the article suggests that " Even compliments from her husband, sitting with the elders, do not lift her spirits anymore. "   How many men compliment their wives in the first place ? Of course, because of the lack of compliments if one finally does give a compliment, they won't accept it.

To Summarize:
1. More complimenting from both spouses,  WITHOUT criticizing
2. don't wait for #1. - communicate effectively.

Monday, November 15, 2010

marriage seminar

While attending a marriage seminar on communication, Chaim and his wife Shira listened to the instructor declare, "It's essential that husbands and  wives are aware of the things that are important to each other."He addressed the men, "Can you describe your wife's favorite flower?"
 
Chaim leaned over to his wife and asked in a whisper, "Kemach All-Purpose, isn't it?"The rest of the story is not pleasant...