Who is one allowed to date?

Parents;
on whose grip are you really in?
why are you looking for matches that you want and is not good for your children?
why are there more separations and divorces happening?

Boys and Girls;
on whose grip are you really in?
why are you marrying what the wrong educators tell you?
why are you marrying to spouses that your friends "approve" of?
when will you educate yourself to what marriage is truly all about?

Educators;
start being honest! get off your high chairs! build a true klal yisroel!