The serial dater ?

Inside the mind of a serial seducer.

Then this follow-up.

I found this fellow straightforward, and the women not getting it. Especially when they were trying to convince him that he was wrong about being honest!


The BIG question here is as follows;
Are people responsible for their own feelings when dating?
Do women have more false ideas on dates?
What are the women thinking when they are going up to his apartment?
When are women going to get it, that having sex before marriage is not going to guarantee them a spouse?
When are women going to stop this facade that they didn't only want sex?

Here is one comment I thought was educating;

This guy is having sex with other men's future wives and children's future moms. He is the opposite of true masculinity. He is not taking any responsibility for the emotional health of these women. He is using them for his own satisfaction. He has no back bone. No courage.

He is right in saying that a lot of people in America want novelty is sex. But true satisfaction in sex does not come with novelty. True satisfaction in sex comes from deep emotional intimacy. Novelty in sex only feeds a desire that will never be satisfied.
Danny Stiller, Dallas, TX (Sent Monday, December 10, 2007 11:47 AM